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Your toughest gift to buy this year – Father and Father-In-Law…12 Days of Shopping, Day 4

Personally, I think men are really hard to buy for and by the amount of visits this post got last year, I am not alone. My default gifts – scarves, gloves, or a nice sweater – just don’t work if your recipient lives in Florida most of the year. So I have to get creative. Luckily I had a brainstorm session with Pragmatic Mom. What did we come up with? Well, there is the ever-popular sports themed gifts. Golf, tennis, any sport that your father or father-in-law might love. If they like the same sport, and you can get away with it, give them the same gift. Guys don’t usually talk about, well anything, so you are pretty safe that they won’t compare gifts – I can’t promise that this will work for your mother and mother-in-law.

capability mom loves target and this digital photo frame For instance, my dad is a gadget guy and my husband’s dad is not, but both would love a digital photo frame (especially one pre-loaded with images of adorable grandchildren). If you want to make it more personal, have siblings also send tech-y grandpa CDs of pictures, jpegs or even a flash drive. He can set it up, no problem. Or pre-load it with pics for someone who doesn’t care for that activity, then re-package the frame an you are good to go.

Also, if he is a techie, great gifts to support his tech…iPad cases are everywhere, phone covers and accessories (a huge blinding wall of them over at the Apple Store, Marshall’s has some in the really well-stocked and long checkout aisle where they get you to make impulse purchases now.

There is always a tie – really? Did I just write that? Yes, not just any ties but a Hermes tie or a Ermenegildo Zegna tie. If you need to make a very nice impression then this is the way to go. Big bucks – $180 for Hermes and about $175 for Zegna (although I am a bargain shopper and have seen the Zegna for less). Filene’s Basement is going out of business (so sad – I love that store and have great stories about it – I guess that is for another time) and they still have lots of great stuff – I was there yesterday.

Books! You know I am a bit of a book freak – what, you didn’t notice, really? – I head to my local independent bookstores; Newtonville Books or New England Mobile Book Fair but I do have to admit that the nearby Barnes & Noble does do a great job of suggesting books as well, and, yes, I do shop at Amazon, too. Love that super saver shipping. Go to the Best Sellers List in the NY Times for popular, NPR for funkier offerings and

capability mom finds ny giants gear on lineFor a sports enthusiasts – especially of one particular team – it is easy – there are tons of shirts, hats, and paraphernalia – go to the team website or your local sporting goods store (especially nice if you don’t support the same team, you look gracious and maybe a little heroic). For the sporty guys, just go for nicer stuff than he would buy for himself. For a golfer – go to Titleist and order personalized golf balls (with their name or nickname). For your tennis player, get tennis balls, some court time (with you? not me, this is a gift, not a punishment) at a place they don’t usually play. Runners are a cinch – new UnderArmour long sleeve shirt – about $50-60 or some running gloves, always welcome in New England.

Architect or Engineer types? Don’t overlook building kits like this from Frank Lloyd Wright and Lego – not cheap – about $100 at Target.capability mom finds great gifts for engineers or architects at targetIs your dad or father-in-law into building or fixing stuff? Easy! Head on over to Home Depot, Sears or Lowe’s and grab a gift card (too easy?) a Craftsman tool kit or if you really want a big gift – go for this rolling cart.

Don’t forget the experience gift – a pair of tickets to a game or event – whether it is theatre, sports or concert. Maybe you will even get invited to go along.

Does he love the Red Sox? Boats? Architecture? Nature? Check out this site for gorgeous photographs stretched on canvas – Sharon Schindler Photography.

Now, this brings us to the Mothers and Mothers-in-law, be sure to make the gifts of equal value! Obviously, you know them best – but here are some thoughts that Pragmatic Mom– ever the diplomat – put together.

The 12 Days of Shopping

Dec 1: Make Your Own Gifts GRANOLA, Amazing Granola from Nigella Lawson versus Amazing Granola Bars from The Barefoot Contessa

Dec 2: Kids Make Gifts CRAFT (ModPodge versus Clove Fruit)

Dec 3: Personalized Gifts (Fancy Address Stampers versus Pretty Papers Giveaway)

Dec 4: Father-in-Law/Dad and Mother-in-Law/Mom

Dec 5: Tutors/Teachers

Dec 6: High Tech/Low Tech

Dec 7: Hostess/Doing Good and Getting Something

Dec 8: Sanitation Engineers, Mail Carriers, Hairdresser, Delivery People, Babysitter, Cleaning People, Dog Walker/Dog Trainer, etc. (a.k.a. who else did I forget?)

Dec 9: Husband, Me (Our Own Wacko List); Capability:Mom Husband/Wife

Dec 10: Dog/Cat

Dec 11: Quick Gifts from Whole Foods versus Gourmet Food Store

Dec 12: ’Cause I Am So Together, Last Minute Home Made Gifts: Cookies & Personalized Holiday Tags

Books, Film and Music

What am I up to? Well, I should be straightening out the house, doing laundry and going to the post office. What I am doing is trawling around on-line and ignoring my to-do list. Join me in ignoring your to-do list – be it emails to return or reports to write. Nice, how I encourage slacking. Actually I am promoting the arts – See?

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Museum of Fine Arts, Boston –  Film Calendar October Highlights Fashion on Film

  • Fashionistas, don’t miss out this October! Not only do we have two stylish new exhibitions, “Avedon Fashion 1944–2000” and “Scaasi: American Couturier,” the month is full of fashionable fun. Grab your friends for events featuring new runway looks with Saks Fifth Avenue, mini-makeovers, films, and talks with Don Ed Hardy, and more.In Search of Beethoven, Oct 20-23
  • Back by popular demand, In Search of Beethoven sheds a new light on the Beethoven man and myth. Co-presented by the Handel and Haydn Society.Pianomania, Oct 20-29
  • Pianomania follows a Steinway piano turner and his quest to flawlessly French pianist Pierre-Laurent Aimard’s piano for a performance of Bach’s unfinished “Art of Fugue.” Read an interview with director Robert Cibis.We Pedal Uphill: Stories from the States 2001-2008, Oct 21, 22
  • A cross-section of post-9/11 American life, fictional vignettes examine the moralities and injustices that mar American ideologies. Discussion with the director follows the Oct 21 screening. Watch the trailer.Carlos, Oct 29, 30
  • A thriller about the mysterious terrorist known as Carlos whose extreme political views and methods of expressing them earned him as many followers as enemies. Watch the trailer.
  • Newtonville Books sends a great newsletter about their upcoming events and has a blog written by the staff. The newsletter was full of great links, most notably to these two hysterical videos. From the newsletter:

    Join us Tuesday at 7pm as Amy Hempel hosts a reading of selected contributors from the latest NEW STORIES FROM THE SOUTH, edited by Amy.  Readers include Bret Anthony Johnston, Megan Mayhew Bergman, and Ken Calhoun. Then on Wednesday at 7pm we host Brock Clarke, author of EXLEY, and Elizabeth Searle, who will give us a preview of her new novel, GIRL HELD IN HOME, to be published in 2011.

    A heads-up that our Celebrity Bookclub meets on Tues, Nov 2 at 7pm to discuss THE GOOD SOLDIER by Ford Madox Ford. Hosted by Holly LeCraw.

    A special message for you from Grub Street.

    We recently hosted Gary Shteyngart and MIT’s TECHNOLOGY REVIEW stopped by to interview him.  They made this video. (Love this but could they not have given the man a nicer spot to sit -must he be in front of the fire extinguisher and a trash can?)  And of course Gary’s book has this infamous book trailer.

    I haven’t read this yet but it is now on my list – a review from Slate and this video sealed it for me.

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